Dating

Hello ppl, it's been awhile but i'm back now and it's yet another time to share more of my thts and experiences.

As a guy i think i started alittle late as in ogling or reali takin interests in reali dating or checking nice sweet females that walk by me. For most part of my life i am always confident abut myself, it's probably the up bringing and my supportive family.

Recently i recieve more cofident boosting chances... for example going to the YEP trip to Laos has been one... i've made wonderful frenz there and met with wonderful ppl. Mayb it's true that when you are confident you become more attractive.. but seriously i have nv tht of myself as a attractive person... mayb a low self esteem yet again... but it's all better now... i use to ask ppl out on dates but now i think my lucky star mite be shining super bright.. I actuali am getting females asking me out.. i mean it's not only one.. one is not worth mentioing... ahha... pls dun get me wrong i'm not bloasting or anything like that... juz trying to say that being confident abut yourself reali does make a difference. And you noe what is the best part?

When you are confident and you get ppl dating you.. you being more confident... unless you reali ruin the date then that is a reali a demoralising one but dun let it bother you too much pick yourself up and get a move on quickly anyway it's only a date.... who noes mayb she like you so much she dun reali bother abut the date... or mayb she reali enjoyed the date but it's only on your part that you think you have ruin things. So dun assume... unless at the end of the date when you send her home and then she turns around and say :"Hey i think you suck at dating, i dun think i wanna be dating you anymore." But even thou this may happen what the fuck.... juz say bye to her and leave.. you will get a new date soon....lol... But seriously if she reali likes you why the hell wld she date you and then tell you that... she mite be thinkin..."oh... mayb we are out on the first date and he is as nervous as i am"... so she mite still be asking you out... but for godness sake... if the gal take the initial step to ask you out... the next time make sure you are the one asking her out instead and that is if you are interested in her too... or at least consider abut her... else tell her you are seeing someone or something...mayb you can tell her you're gay.... lol.... but then i think she will get the message.. unless she is dumb or she's taking it as a joke.

Look if you are interested in the gal who happen to ask you out and you cannot make it on that date...........PLS tell her or suggest to her a date that you can make it and work something out. Else she mite think that you are not interested in her ..... THEN dude i'm telling you... you have miss the boat..

If you are interested in a gal and you try dating her... she says she can't and din suggest dun take it too hard.. caz she like playing hard to get... i dunno what the fuck but they seem to like doing that..and that is so irritating...probably try a few more times if all of it din fall thru as a date... Bro.... get a life.. move on.. she not worth it.. who noes you have your dream gal waiting for your arrival juz around the corner... faster you move the faster you meet her... lol..... OKOK fuck that mentality... you are suppose to fuck the lousy datees and enjoy the gd ones... but you become a couple appreciate the gd one and other stop creating gd date to take her out to...

I dunno abut you but i sure like dating... the more i date the smoother you become.. it's like skill homing session... you learn to handle yourself under stress and speak with tact..... but that i definately is not gd at it... if i'm out with someone i reali like... i often find myself ending up reali quiet but i surely wun stop trying to chat her up with something... look if the tht abut both of you being together nv pass her mind... why the hell wld she be dating you right? She may have a gd impression of you and think mayb she can noe you more and see how it goes on the dates. Having a gd impression is already 1/3 of the battle won... next 1/3 is to do let her noe you and you gettin to noe her and final 1/3 is to charm her and win her over.

hey dun even starting abut me being a casanova.. i'm not... it's juz my experiences, thoughts and reading that i do during my free time..i do have gd frenz who are female you noe... so of course i ask when i'm in doubt and i dun ask one.. i ask a few to see and get a general view of how gals think.